If you are thinking about filing for bankruptcy, do not accumulate any credit card debt for holiday gifts. Otherwise you may run into trouble over what debts are dischargeable in your case.  Instead, come up with thoughtful ways to express your love and appreciation for your loved ones that do not involve spending a lot of money on gifts this holiday season.

When money is tight, financial anxiety can cloud the holidays, making the temptation to use credit cards nearly irresistible. We live in a rather materialistic culture, so when we express our love and affection through gifts we tend to let price carry too much meaning, often by allowing the gifts we give to define our worth. That is particularly true with our close loved ones, whom we are reluctant to disappoint.

The feelings about expressing love through pricey gifts may be especially intense if there is tension in the marriage, or within the household, which is often the case when there are financial pressures.  But we all know that the price of a gift is not a true measure of our love and that gifts do not buy love. To help you follow your wiser impulses, here are three suggestions.

1.  Give gifts appropriate to your financial circumstances, no matter how modest they may be.  That is the only responsible way, and in fact shows your love—especially to family members—more than if you gave gifts you could not afford.

2.  Direct your energy toward coming up with a gift idea that reflects the connection between you and the intended recipient.  Make it a gift that the person will enjoy but also one that shows you really put thought into it.

3.  Communicate honestly with your loved ones about your financial circumstances.  Do this in a way that is appropriate for the relationship, which will be different for extended family, your significant other, and/or your children. This communication need not be negative.  Instead, it can be a constructive conversation about priorities, honesty, and your love for the other person.

Following these tips can be difficult, but sometimes it needs to be done.

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At least in New Jersey, the answer to this question is yes and no. Unless you’ve been sued and a judgment has been entered against you, don’t worry, because a creditor cannot just take your money or property. That’s what due process is all about.

But if a creditor has sued you in court and you either failed to answer the lawsuit or you answered but lost the lawsuit somehow, a judgment can (and probably will) be entered against you. Then, a New Jersey creditor could obtain permission from the court to pursue your assets to satisfy the judgment. This creditor can go after money you have sitting in a bank account, which will result in all of your account’s funds being frozen, at least temporarily. They can also obtain a wage garnishment order to take money directly out of your paycheck before you get paid. While there are other remedies a creditor can technically pursue, these are the two that are used most often. For example, it’s unlikely that a credit-card company is going to take and sell your items of personal property – that’s just too much work for too little return.

Be careful if you have moved recently, or if you never updated your address with your creditors. They might legitimately believe that you live somewhere else and try to serve you with a lawsuit at your old address. The problem is that you might not be aware of a judgment against you. While you might have a legitimate argument that you were not properly served with the lawsuit, it’s highly unlikely to be worth your time and money finding and hiring an attorney to challenge the judgment. If the challenge works, you still have to defend against the lawsuit. If your challenge to the judgment does not work, you are still faced with owing money to your judgment creditor, after having paid an attorney to represent you. Many attorneys (myself included) just don’t think it’s worth even taking these types of cases, especially if the judgment debtor would benefit from a bankruptcy instead.

Bankruptcy can wipe out your personal liability on a judgment debt. However, if the creditor’s enforcement of its judgment rights has resulted in a lien being placed on your property, you may wish to consider taking the extra step of having the lien removed, since bankruptcy cannot wipe out the lien. You don’t need to worry about the lien if you do not own any real estate or if you think you won’t purchase any real estate in the future.

If you are calling attorneys for help because you owe money and you are scared that a creditor is going to sue you and you want to know exactly when this might happen and when it does, how long it will take them to get your bank account/wages/whatever, STOP. Unless you are prepared to do something about it right then and there (such as hiring the attorney to help you file for bankruptcy or to defend against the lawsuit you have already been served with), you have no reason to call attorneys, because they can’t help you. I say this because I often get these kind of calls, where the person calling is just exploding with worry, but has completely closed off any possible remedy because, for whatever reason, they won’t file for bankruptcy, at least not right now.

If you actually wish to discuss the pros and cons of personal bankruptcy, I (and many other attorneys) would be happy to take your call. But if you have done your research and you have closed off the possibility of bankruptcy and you already know what all of your non-bankruptcy options are, please save yourself (and me) the time and don’t call.

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I know, you may not have as much as $50,000 in an IRA or a 401(k). It might be only $1200. Maybe it’s a lot more than $50,000. Or you might not even have a 401(k) or IRA account – but this post is targeted to those who do.

If you have fallen behind, or are about to fall behind, on your credit card payments and you are considering taking money from your IRA or 401(k) account to catch up those payments and to avoid bankruptcy, please reconsider. Before you touch any of that money, sit down and work out the numbers, without taking into consideration future job prospects or future money that *might* come your way at some point. Only use current income numbers – will cashing out your 401(k) or IRA savings really be a good thing? Don’t forget to add in the taxes, penalties, and/or interest that you will owe on the distribution from the 401(k) or IRA, plus the fact that if it’s a 401(k) loan, add in the money that you will owe yourself on that loan. And add in how much it will cost you to save up that much money all over again.

If you’ve worked out the numbers, did you notice how expensive it gets to take money out of these types of accounts and to use the money to pay down on your credit card debt? And how the amount probably doesn’t even cover all of your credit card debt? If the latter is the case, then I ask you: Why are you even thinking about it at all?

Regardless of whether you can pay off all of your credit card debt by cashing out a 401(k) or IRA, you would be doing yourself a disservice if you did not consider bankruptcy as an alternative. And I mean *alternative* – what I am trying to prevent by writing this post is a situation in which you cash out the 401(k) or IRA, throw the money at your credit cards, and then file for bankruptcy anyway. Because that will have been a terrible waste, and I’ll tell you why:

In Chapter 7 bankruptcies in New Jersey, most IRA and 401(k) accounts are safe from being taken and used to satisfy your debts.

That’s it, really. So if you are about to cash in that 401(k) or IRA account to pay on your credit cards, please think again and consider the huge costs you will be facing by doing so.

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The New Jersey Supreme Court decided Big M on July 16, 2010. The issue in the case was whether tips and gratuities are subject to garnishment. As you may recall, a garnishment can happen when a debt collector who has a judgment against you gets a court order to take part of your pay to satisfy the judgment.

Big M involved a waitress working for Texas Roadhouse Holding, LLC whose wages were being garnished. When her creditor, Big M, got a check for only $4.21 from its $672 wage garnishment, it sued her employer. In the course of deciding the case, the trial court judge determined that tips placed on credit cards are garnishable, but cash tips are not. Then the New Jersey Supreme Court considered the case on appeal.

Looking at both New Jersey law and the Federal Consumer Credit Protection Act (CCPA), the court did not find any law directly speaking to the issue of whether tips were subject to garnishment. So it examined an opinion letter and field operations handbook from the Department of Labor, which enforces the CCPA, and found the opinion that tips, whether paid in cash or charged, are not subject to garnishment. Although the New Jersey Supreme Court is not required to follow a Department of Labor opinion, the court chose to give the opinion consideration and deference.

Big M, the creditor, argued that all tips should be subject to garnishment because they are taxable income for state and federal tax purposes. The court did not find this argument persuasive because the process of counting and recording tip income and reporting it for tax purposes does not allow the employer to exercise enough control over tip income to make it garnishable. The whole idea behind wage garnishment is to capture the income while it is still in the employer’s hands, before it gets paid to the employee.

The court held that the amount of control an employer exercises over tip income determines whether those tips are subject to wage garnishment. If the employer pools all the tips and then divides the pooled amount amongst the employees, then tip income could be garnished. But if the tips are generally paid directly to the employee, even if the tips are charged on a credit card, they are not subject to garnishment.

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Credit cards are a huge problem in the U.S. A May 21st New York Times article reported that the Standard & Poor’s/Experian Consumer Credit Default Indices shows that the default rate on credit card loans recently climbed to its highest point, 9.14 percent, since the index first began in 2004.

So more people are no longer paying their credit card bills. What are those people who’ve stopped paying on their credit cards doing about their credit card debt?

Hopefully, they’re not paying a debt settlement company to try and “get out of debt.” There are a few cases where using a debt settlement company may be appropriate, but not many. Many debt settlement companies take large fees and tell you to stop paying on your credit card bills. They take monthly payments from you for a long time. Then they make offers to your credit card companies to settle your debts.

Sound like something you can do by yourself without paying the high fees? Yeah, there’s a reason for that – it is.

But many people who are taking the debt settlement route should consider bankruptcy instead. If you’re thinking about pursuing the debt settlement route, ask yourself, “why did I decide that bankruptcy wasn’t for me?” Was it fear? A belief that bankruptcy is too difficult?

You owe it to yourself – and your financial health – to first take the time to do some research. Look around online. The bankruptcy courts have their own websites with plenty of information for potential filers. It can’t hurt you to take the time to educate yourself. You need to know what the potential benefits of bankruptcy are before you commit to the high fees charged by a debt settlement company.

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Truth is, the best way to “manage” credit cards is not to carry a balance at all. Don’t spend more than you can afford. Pay off the entire balance at the end of every month.

But you will find advice out there about how to pay down credit-card balances and keep ahead of the game, as though everyone were in an equal starting position in a game of Monopoly. Some of this advice may be right for you if you can afford it and if it will successfully lead you to a goal of getting all your credit card debt paid off.

Unfortunately, people often don’t realize, until they’ve made even worse financial mistakes, that the advice they tried to follow to pay down on their credit-card debt or to pay it off just wasn’t right for them.

If you are in a position where you are thinking about getting money from somewhere other than your regular source of income just to pay off your credit card debt or to pay it down “just enough,” you are thinking along the wrong lines.

Here are my personal “do not” rules for paying down credit card debt:

* Do not borrow money to pay off credit cards. “Borrowing money” includes things you might not normally think of as borrowing, like using your checking account’s line of credit or overdraft protection.

* Do not take money out of a retirement account to pay off credit cards. Especially do not cash out, or withdraw any money from, a 401k account – you will not only be cashing out part of your future safety net, but you will also be incurring a huge tax liability in the process. A tax liability that – by the way – is likely not dischargeable in bankruptcy.

* Do not spend money on a debt consolidation company (or a debt whatever company) to pay off credit cards. You would be spending extra money to just to repay money. Some people do this successfully, but the people who manage to pull this off already have sufficient income to pay off their debts eventually. And those people could probably pay off their debt without a debt consolidation company by reducing their expenses and making large enough payments toward their debt to pay it all off – and they can also call up the credit card companies themselves to try and negotiate better payment arrangements.

If you’ve looked at your income and found that you “have to” do one of these three things in order to pay off (or even to pay down) your credit cards over time, stop and consult a bankruptcy attorney. Do not dig yourself into a bigger financial mess by making one of these three mistakes.

Don’t make even bigger financial mistakes! If you are drowning in credit-card debt and can’t dig your way out, call me for a free bankruptcy telephone consultation at 201-676-0722.

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Other banks are still involved in the lawsuit, which is in Federal Court in New York. These other banks include Capital One, Chase, Citibank, Discover and HSBC. The lawsuit accuses them of violating antitrust laws by requiring cardholders to enter into arbitration for all disputes.

Many believe that credit card arbitrations are biased in favor of the credit card company.

Earlier this year, National Arbitration Forum, a large arbitration company, dropped out of the credit-card arbitration business as a result of a lawsuit against it.

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