If you are thinking about filing for bankruptcy, do not accumulate any credit card debt for holiday gifts. Otherwise you may run into trouble over what debts are dischargeable in your case.  Instead, come up with thoughtful ways to express your love and appreciation for your loved ones that do not involve spending a lot of money on gifts this holiday season.

When money is tight, financial anxiety can cloud the holidays, making the temptation to use credit cards nearly irresistible. We live in a rather materialistic culture, so when we express our love and affection through gifts we tend to let price carry too much meaning, often by allowing the gifts we give to define our worth. That is particularly true with our close loved ones, whom we are reluctant to disappoint.

The feelings about expressing love through pricey gifts may be especially intense if there is tension in the marriage, or within the household, which is often the case when there are financial pressures.  But we all know that the price of a gift is not a true measure of our love and that gifts do not buy love. To help you follow your wiser impulses, here are three suggestions.

1.  Give gifts appropriate to your financial circumstances, no matter how modest they may be.  That is the only responsible way, and in fact shows your love—especially to family members—more than if you gave gifts you could not afford.

2.  Direct your energy toward coming up with a gift idea that reflects the connection between you and the intended recipient.  Make it a gift that the person will enjoy but also one that shows you really put thought into it.

3.  Communicate honestly with your loved ones about your financial circumstances.  Do this in a way that is appropriate for the relationship, which will be different for extended family, your significant other, and/or your children. This communication need not be negative.  Instead, it can be a constructive conversation about priorities, honesty, and your love for the other person.

Following these tips can be difficult, but sometimes it needs to be done.

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Isn’t a bankruptcy filing supposed to stop all your creditors’ collection efforts against you and your property? Yes, and in fact in many cases a bankruptcy filing does exactly that. Stopping collection efforts is a benefit of filing bankruptcy called the “automatic stay,” because at the moment of the bankruptcy filing, a legal injunction automatically goes into effect “staying,” or stopping, most creditors’ actions against you. But because the automatic stay is something we count on, we had better know its exceptions.

Today I’m just going to list some of the most important exceptions. Then in the next couple of posts I will explain in practical terms these and other important aspects of the automatic stay.

So creditors CAN do the following in spite of your bankruptcy filing:

1) A district attorney or other governmental authority can begin or continue a criminal case against you, such as an indictment, a criminal trial, or a sentencing hearing. This includes not just felonies and misdemeanors, but also lesser matters like traffic infractions that you might not think of as “criminal.”

2) Your ex-spouse, or about-to-be ex-spouse, or somebody on his or her behalf, can start or continue a variety of divorce and family court proceedings. These include legal procedures to establish paternity of a child, determine or change the amount of child or spousal support to be paid, settle child custody or visitation issues, address domestic violence disputes, and even dissolve the marriage. (Although a marriage dissolution usually cannot include a determination about how assets or debts would be divided between the spouses.)

3) Specifically about child or spousal support, the person owed ongoing support can continue collecting it. If there is back support owed, then in spite of a Chapter 7 filing, the person who is owed the support can in most cases start or continue collecting it. This includes not only collection through wage withholdings and garnishment of bank accounts, but also through seizure of a tax refund and suspension of a driver’s license, an occupational or professional license, or even a hunting or other recreational license. In contrast, a Chapter 13 filing can stop these aggressive methods of collecting back support.

4) Taxing authorities can start or finish a tax audit, can send you a notice that you owe taxes, can demand you to file your tax returns, can assess your taxes and demand you to pay them, and in some situations can even file tax liens against you and your property.

Notice that each of these exceptions involves a special kind of creditor. As I said, the automatic stay stops actions against you by most creditors. But if you are involved in a court proceeding or collection efforts by the criminal or taxing authorities, or by an ex-spouse, be especially aware of these exceptions.

 
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I know, you may not have as much as $50,000 in an IRA or a 401(k). It might be only $1200. Maybe it’s a lot more than $50,000. Or you might not even have a 401(k) or IRA account – but this post is targeted to those who do.

If you have fallen behind, or are about to fall behind, on your credit card payments and you are considering taking money from your IRA or 401(k) account to catch up those payments and to avoid bankruptcy, please reconsider. Before you touch any of that money, sit down and work out the numbers, without taking into consideration future job prospects or future money that *might* come your way at some point. Only use current income numbers – will cashing out your 401(k) or IRA savings really be a good thing? Don’t forget to add in the taxes, penalties, and/or interest that you will owe on the distribution from the 401(k) or IRA, plus the fact that if it’s a 401(k) loan, add in the money that you will owe yourself on that loan. And add in how much it will cost you to save up that much money all over again.

If you’ve worked out the numbers, did you notice how expensive it gets to take money out of these types of accounts and to use the money to pay down on your credit card debt? And how the amount probably doesn’t even cover all of your credit card debt? If the latter is the case, then I ask you: Why are you even thinking about it at all?

Regardless of whether you can pay off all of your credit card debt by cashing out a 401(k) or IRA, you would be doing yourself a disservice if you did not consider bankruptcy as an alternative. And I mean *alternative* – what I am trying to prevent by writing this post is a situation in which you cash out the 401(k) or IRA, throw the money at your credit cards, and then file for bankruptcy anyway. Because that will have been a terrible waste, and I’ll tell you why:

In Chapter 7 bankruptcies in New Jersey, most IRA and 401(k) accounts are safe from being taken and used to satisfy your debts.

That’s it, really. So if you are about to cash in that 401(k) or IRA account to pay on your credit cards, please think again and consider the huge costs you will be facing by doing so.

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First, don’t worry. Remember – most, if not all, of your debts are on file somewhere – in your consumer credit reports. It is possible to pull your credit report from each of the three main consumer credit reporting agencies and find out what your creditors have reported with regard to what, and whom, you owe. These three agencies are Experian, Trans Union, and Equifax.

But what if you think you already know exactly who you owe and how much you owe them, prior to filing for bankruptcy? It is still a good practice to pull your credit reports before you file, anyway.

You should pull your credit reports because you may have forgotten a debt, a creditor may be reporting that you owe more than you think you do, and/or one or more of your debts may have been sold to a debt buyer without your knowledge. This is just a good due diligence practice.

The official site for free credit reports from all three credit reporting agencies is annualcreditreport.com. You don’t need to use the ones you see advertised on TV – they will cost you some money, possibly every month. So watch out what services you might be signing up for when you are surfing the net looking for credit report sources.

If you are going to hire an attorney to help with the bankruptcy, speak to that attorney first before you go to the trouble of pulling the reports, unless you just want to see them anyway. The attorney may already have a credit reporting service they want to use. Tell the attorney that you want a copy of the credit report they pull for you. Or, they may want you to pull your own reports first, before starting on your bankruptcy case. Different lawyers go about the preparation of a bankruptcy case in different ways.

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The means test is like a big IRS form with spaces for plugging in certain numbers and checking off boxes. If you’ve filed for bankruptcy in years past, you may not have seen it. The form was introduced as a result of the new bankruptcy legislation that Congress passed in 2005, which created more hoops for individual bankruptcy filers to jump through.

It has two main parts: The first determines whether your earnings are above or below median. The second is for those who are above median – it lets you take *certain* deductions from your income in an attempt to lower it to the point where you can qualify for a Chapter 7.

Obviously, it’s preferable not to have to fill out the second part of the Chapter 7 means test.

Those whose earnings vary during the year might be in a better position with regard to the means test than those with steady over-median earnings. Examples of people with variable pay over the course of a typical year include teachers, college professors, those who work solely or primarily on commission, and those who periodically claim unemployment insurance benefits because of temporary jobs or seasonal employment.

Many people credit their variable income for getting them into debt trouble to begin with, since they aren’t always able to afford their monthly payments steadily throughout the year.

How can earnings that vary over the year possibly be to your benefit? Because the means test only includes the earnings you received during the 6 months before your bankruptcy filing. If that prior 6 months encompasses a part of the year during which your income was lower, you have a better chance at your pay being below the median and qualifying for a Chapter 7.

So when considering the question of when you should file, think about filing soon after a period of lower income.

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Credit cards are a huge problem in the U.S. A May 21st New York Times article reported that the Standard & Poor’s/Experian Consumer Credit Default Indices shows that the default rate on credit card loans recently climbed to its highest point, 9.14 percent, since the index first began in 2004.

So more people are no longer paying their credit card bills. What are those people who’ve stopped paying on their credit cards doing about their credit card debt?

Hopefully, they’re not paying a debt settlement company to try and “get out of debt.” There are a few cases where using a debt settlement company may be appropriate, but not many. Many debt settlement companies take large fees and tell you to stop paying on your credit card bills. They take monthly payments from you for a long time. Then they make offers to your credit card companies to settle your debts.

Sound like something you can do by yourself without paying the high fees? Yeah, there’s a reason for that – it is.

But many people who are taking the debt settlement route should consider bankruptcy instead. If you’re thinking about pursuing the debt settlement route, ask yourself, “why did I decide that bankruptcy wasn’t for me?” Was it fear? A belief that bankruptcy is too difficult?

You owe it to yourself – and your financial health – to first take the time to do some research. Look around online. The bankruptcy courts have their own websites with plenty of information for potential filers. It can’t hurt you to take the time to educate yourself. You need to know what the potential benefits of bankruptcy are before you commit to the high fees charged by a debt settlement company.

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Americans have an unhealthy obsession with bad credit, as though a credit score were an indicator of self worth. This obsession is unnecessary. You don’t need a good credit score to live a fulfilling and happy life. Even if you have bad credit, the sun will still come out tomorrow.

Do you want to work for a bank? Do you want to buy real estate someday? If so, you probably have legitimate reasons to be concerned with how your credit report looks to others. If not, stop worrying about your credit. It is not worth the energy you spend on thinking about it, believe me. But if it is a priority, there are ways you can rebuild credit.

And you’d think people who are on the verge of filing for bankruptcy must be starting out with good credit, considering all the energy they expend worrying about how it might ruin their credit scores. But you’d be wrong, for the most part. Sure, some people who file for bankruptcy early enough might still have a decent score, but honestly, most people who are serious about it already have bad credit.

If you are legitimately concerned with your credit, consider this: Those starting out with bad credit should look at how a bankruptcy can help begin to rebuild credit by providing a fresh start. Those starting out with good credit, but who have dischargeable debts they can’t pay, should be looking at how far down their credit score can go if they let their untenable debt situation continue its downward spiral.

Thinking about a bankruptcy in New Jersey? Call Jennifer Weil at 201-676-0722 for a free telephone consultation or email me at jweil@jenlawyer.com.

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This is what something called “exemptions” are for. The way I explain it to clients is this: When you file for bankruptcy, something called the “bankruptcy estate” is created, kind of like the estate that is created when someone dies. Everything in the that estate temporarily comes under the Chapter 7 trustee‘s control. The trustee can sell estate assets to pay off your creditors. If something is NOT in the bankruptcy estate, it will not come under the trustee’s control.

How do you keep your stuff out of the bankruptcy estate? You list all it in your filing. Then you cite to the statutes allowing you to exempt each item from the estate. The laws allowing you to keep property out of the bankruptcy estate are generally called “exemptions”.

Does that mean you can exempt anything from the bankruptcy estate, no matter how expensive the it is? NO. Unfortunately not. Exemptions are limited. And they vary greatly by state.

How are exemptions limited? Generally, they are limited by type of property and by amount. For example, you might find that the statute that applies to jewelry might be limited in amount to $1500. This means you could exempt only $1500 worth of jewelry from your bankruptcy estate (that’s just an example – I made it up, so don’t rely on that statement for jewelry!). Limitations like this can make it difficult (and sometimes impossible) to exempt very valuable items like real estate, newer cars, or valuable collectors’ items.

How do you value your items? Generally speaking, you value your property by determining its resale value – how much could you get for it at a garage sale or on an auction website?

How do I exempt items that I don’t want to list in my papers? You don’t. Unlisted property is not exempted.

The bottom line is that you need to speak to a bankruptcy attorney in the state where you live to find out what the exemptions limitations are. And don’t make the mistake of transferring property to someone else just to keep it out of the bankruptcy estate.

If you are in New Jersey and need a bankruptcy attorney for a potential Chapter 7, please call Jennifer Weil at 201-676-0722 for a free telephone consultation or email me at jweil@jenlawyer.com.

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One way to get your creditors to stop harassing you is by filing for bankruptcy. But how does filing for bankruptcy stop creditor calls and letters? Through something called the “automatic stay”.

The automatic stay in bankruptcy can be a powerful benefit for debtors who feel that they are being hounded by creditor phone calls and letters. It can prevent further harassment from debt collectors.

After a bankruptcy is filed, creditors must stop attempting to collect on debts as a result of the automatic stay, which takes effect just after filing. Practically speaking, you should wait until creditors receive notice of the filing before they know to stop contacting you.

Or, your lawyer may send out letters of representation to your creditors, which can put a stop to the creditor calls and letters for a while prior to your bankruptcy filing. For example, if the credit card companies are really annoying you, have a talk with your lawyer and see whether letters of representation can be arranged.

Exactly what does the automatic stay protect the debtor from? Debt collection calls, wage garnishment, lawsuits, foreclosure sales, and repossessions.

What types of actions are NOT stayed? Actions regarding family support, such as child support or alimony; criminal prosecutions; and tax assessments or audits.

How long does the automatic stay last? Until the debtor’s bankruptcy discharge comes through or until a creditor asks a judge and successfully gets the automatic stay lifted.

What happens when a creditor violates the automatic stay? Then that creditor may be subject to civil penalties, such as the payment of damages.

If you have a question about bankruptcy, feel free to contact the Hoboken Bankruptcy Attorney at 201-676-0722 or at jweil@jenlawyer.com.

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  Which debts should you put in the bankruptcy and which ones should you leave out?

  Answer: You are required to list all of your debts in your bankruptcy papers! It is a common notion that you are allowed to keep some debts out of your bankruptcy by not listing them – but this could not be further from the truth.

  Don’t forget, you are signing your bankruptcy papers under penalty of perjury, which means that you could be criminally prosecuted if you fail to disclose information on those papers. These papers require you to list complete information, including “all” of your debts.

  What if you accidentally leave out some piece of information? Then you should tell your lawyer as soon as you realize your mistake, because you may be able to amend the filed bankruptcy papers. You may be required to pay an extra fee to the Bankruptcy Court.

  And don’t forget to list all debts you may owe to friends and relatives. Many people do not think about listing debts to friends and relatives, because they don’t consider them to be the same type of debt as the credit card debt they are so worried about. And it’s true – debts owed to friends and relatives are different, but that does not mean they shouldn’t be listed in your bankruptcy papers.

  If you are seeking bankruptcy advice in northern or central New Jersey, call Jennifer Weil at 201-676-0722 or send an email to: weilattorney@gmail.com.
  

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